Crossroads Easter Meal

Crossroads Easter Meal

Easter Baskets and Donations Needed!

On Easter Sunday, April 1st, the St. Mary’s community will prepare and serve dinner at Crossroads Soup Kitchen in downtown Detroit. <crossroadsofmichigan.org> This event is a great way to share in and celebrate the love of the Easter season with 1,000 Detroit community members and other St. Mary parishioners!

There are 3 ways to get involved:

Volunteer at Crossroads on Easter Sunday:
1st Shift: 8:00am-12:00pm (Meal Prep)
2nd Shift: 11:15am-3:45pm (Meal Serving)

If you would like to volunteer or have any question, please e-mail Kathie CrossroadsEaster@umich.edu with your preferred shift, whether you need a ride to Detroit or if you have a car and can take additional people you. If you do not have e-mail, please give the above information and your phone number to the parish office.

We need Easter basket components and lots of candy!Many children are guests at our Easter meal. Help us give each of them an Easter basket as a special gift from St. Mary! Please donate filled Easter baskets or basket making components (baskets, Easter grass-preferably paper, crayons, chocolate bunnies, ‘good for you’ snacks, toiletries, etc.).

In addition to Easter baskets, each meal comes with a small bag of Easter candy. We would greatly appreciate candy donations—mini/fun size wrapped candies are best. Unwrapped candy cannot be used. Please take your Easter basket and candy donations to the parish office by Monday, March 27th.

Make a donation.

Your financial support of this communal meal with our brothers and sisters in Detroit is what makes it happen. Please make checks payable to: St. Mary Student Parish and write “Crossroads Easter Meal” on the memo line.  You can also donate on the St. Mary’s website.  Thank you, as always, for your tremendous generosity.

Contact: Kathie Wolney  <[email protected]>

March Match Madness Returns!

Team up with St. Mary to support Catholic campus ministry!

Our goal is to raise $100,000 in just 31 days and we need your help. Thanks to generous donors, your gift will be matched dollar for dollar. Your gift  – doubled!

We are thrilled that the number of participants in our vibrant campus ministry programs continues to grow. Together we can reach our goal and serve the next generation of Catholic leaders.

You may give online at www.stmarystudentparish.org/give, or by credit card, cash or check.
Donation cards may be returned with your Sunday offering or in the parish office.

You can even use your phone to make a gift. Use Venmo to make your March Match donation to @SMSPumich.

Thank you for being a part of our caring Catholic community!

Racial Justice reflection series – Chapter 5 “…Speaking Truth to – and from – Two Traditions”

“The will to persevere stems from a core conviction that I am called to the Catholic community because that community needs me and my voice if it is to be “catholic” in reality and not simply in rhetoric.” p.167

In Chapter 5, Fr. Massingale shares his particular experience both as a Black American and a Black Catholic. He explains how his experience as a member of this “community-in-struggle”, as he terms the Black American community, has impacted his vocation as a Catholic theologian. The difficulties that Black Catholics face as a marginalized group not just in American society but within the Catholic Church itself are layed out. “We are faithful, but alienated; faithful, but excluded; faithful, but hurt; faithful, but our culture is not welcome.” p.170 And the responsibility of the Black theologian to “speak the truth about their tears and give voice to their pain” is a sacred trust that Fr. Massingale feels that he has been given.

I looked up the term “catholic”, and found: universal; all-embracing; inclusive, inviting; having broad interests or wide sympathies. Is that the type of Church that we experience? More importantly, is that the Church that those who feel excluded from our secular culture experience? Is it reality or simply rhetoric?

When I first came to St. Mary 20+ years ago, I was drawn in by the dynamic community that I met here. I felt welcomed and loved. I found that I could use my gifts in service to the community. I still love this community deeply but through interactions with Catholics of Color and through reading books and articles by Black authors, I have begun to look more critically at our Church which excludes, many times unconsciously, our Black Catholic sisters and brothers. When I look around St. Mary, unfortunately, I do not see many expressions of the Black Catholic contributions to our faith. I do not see visual representations in the stain glass windows, nativity sets or statues. I do not see Black faces in the pictures on bulletins or flyers. Although I hear hymns about inclusivity and welcoming, I do not hear Black songs and spirituals very often, if at all, during our liturgies. At St. Mary, sometimes I do hear prayers and homilies mentioning marginalized communities but rarely does the sin of racism seem to be an urgent topic of concern in our community as a whole. I know that this is not purposeful exclusion but it comes from a lack of awareness, a lack of consciousness which still causes pain and alienation.

As white Catholics, Fr. Massingale’s book is a wake up call. A call to listen with an open heart and mind without defensiveness. A call to look beyond our white normative Catholic experience, and to see if what we say, do and present as Catholic is truly “universal” or just rhetoric. My hope in reading and discussing this book as a parish is that we can begin this transformation from rhetoric to reality here at St. Mary. What might each of us do to help Black Catholics and other marginalized members of our Church to feel less alienated, excluded, hurt and not welcome? Put in the positive, what might we do to help all God’s children feel included and welcome here?

 

Lisa Hirsch 

Lisa is a resident parishioner and has been involved with social justice ministry at St. Mary for 20+ years. She and her husband are also Eucharistic Ministers and lead the Flint Family Service Trip. They have 3 children and enjoy hiking, camping and traveling together.

Bulletin for February 11, 2018

Check out the Undergrad and Grad Student pages for information on a “REAL” new Tuesday night event. See details on our undergrad student intern program and how to apply. We also have a new approach to our Monday Night Bible Study!

Invitation to a Spiritual Reflection on Experience in this Parish

Fr Brian Paulson, SJ, Provincial of the Midwest Province of the Society of Jesus, in partnership with the other US Provincials, has asked all Midwest Jesuit parishes to initiate an Examen-type process to identify their growth and the Jesuit/Ignatian character of the parishes.

An alternative way to contribute: pray on your own using the following questions and email your responses to [email protected].

Invitation to prayerful response:

What events from your many memories of St. Mary really move your heart toward hope and peacefulness?

What about St. Mary, if any, leaves you feeling troubled, disturbed, or anxious?

As you look around the University of Michigan and Ann Arbor, what are one or two pressing needs the parish is responding to well and or could be doing better.

Submissions need to be received by midnight Sunday, February 11. 

Click here for more information.

Lenten SCC & BPR Sign Ups

Small Church Community (SCC)

Open to everyone–The mission of Small Church Community is to provide time each week where men and women of all ages commit to read, pray and grapple with the Word, reflect on God’s role in our lives and grow in faith and fellow-ship. Small groups will meet once a week for 90 minutes for seven weeks from the week of February 11th to the week of March 25th.
SCC Sign up link:  goo.gl/NWFy8H  The deadline to register is Wednesday, February 7th.

 

Busy Person Retreat (BPR)

Open to Students (freshmen-grad students) and Young Professionals–This Lent, make time for God in the midst of your regular hectic schedule. Bring the joys and concerns of your daily life into conversation with Jesus and a spiritual companion. Invite the Holy Spirit into your decision making and all aspects of your life. Retreatants commit to 15 minutes of individual daily prayer and 40-45 minutes of conversation each week with a provided spiritual companion.  Click on the following link to learn more about spiritual companionship (often called spiritual direction): http://www.ignatianspirituality.com/making-good-decisions/spiritual-direction/
BPR Sign up link: goo.gl/o2e4Uh   The deadline to register is Wednesday, February 7th.

If you have any questions, contact Jenny Line [email protected]

 

Racial Justice reflection series – Epilogue

As a nation, we are still plagued with wary coexistence, latent suspicions, subtle exclusions, covert tensions, and barely concealed resentments- all rooted in an often unacknowledged but entrenched network of racial privilege and dominance. The next frontier of racial justice is the task of dismantling the edifice of white privilege, which demands confronting and naming the “non-rational” set of meanings and values- the white cultural identity and symbol system-that sustains it. (Massingale, p. 176)

Bryan Massingale shows throughout his prophetic book that getting to the promise land of racial justice will not be easy. We in White America live in a cloud of denial oblivious to our privilege. Since the force of law dismantled the blatant racist symbols of the Jim Crow era, we naively delude ourselves in believing that we live now in a post-racial society free from the insidious snares of overt racism and discrimination. There may still be racism but it is merely the personal failings of the unrepentant bigot rather than woven tightly into the fabric of white privilege and dominance keeping us comfortable and complicit. To remain relevant, Massingale believes the Church must confront this reality of white privilege. (Massingale, p. 179). We must strive for integration and not just desegregation for it is there in acceptance not tolerance that the Kingdom of God resides. He shares the experience of his home parish in Milwaukee as an example of the in-breaking of the Kingdom, of what Church can and should be. His description of All Saints Catholic Church reminds me very much of my parish in Washington, D.C.

Over the Christmas break, my family had the blessing of coming home to St. Martin Catholic Church, a racially mixed, predominately African-American parish with an amazing Gospel choir. On New Year’s Day, we came to worship and though we have been gone for more than 10 years, we were instantly recognized and welcomed home. Stephanie, the acolyte, beamed and caught us up on her family. Father Mike asked if we were back or just visiting. We were asked, “You were lectors, right? Would you do the second reading?”, and so I had the privilege of proclaiming the Word of God. The irony of God is sweet and wonderful; I stood before the people I love and spoke Paul’s words to the Colossians, words I had heard on my wedding day. The deacon and the congregation responded with shouts of “Amen”.

During the homily, Fr. Mike called up families in all there diversity so we could pray our needs and receive a blessing. The pews emptied into the aisle during the Sign of Peace and the choir sang lifting us to God. This was Church! This was a glimpse of the Kingdom, and we left that day empowered.

How then can St. Mary’s be where we “practice for the Kingdom”? It can be if we, white parishioners, die to our privilege and dominance. It can be when we are willing to pray and sing and do Church in an idiom that is not “white”. It can be if we say to those whose first or only language is Spanish, “You are not the Spanish speaking community at St. Mary’s; you are the St. Mary’s community”. It can be if we invite people of color into positions of leadership and influence. It can be when we are voices of solidarity with students of color. It can be when all of us, from the pulpit to the pews, boldly proclaim the just word and call out systems of racial oppression and purveyors of bigotry and hatred whether in our government or in our Church. It can be if we trust in God who desires this new life for us.

At St. Martin’s, we would often close our liturgies by singing the gospel hymn “One More Time” One more time! One more time! God has allowed us to come together . . . pray together . . . sing together . . . shout together one more time. God will allow us to come together as a true intercultural community one more time. God will allow us to pray together for racial healing and forgiveness one more time. God will allow us to sing together the beauty of our diversity one more time. God will allow us to shout together for racial justice one more time. God will allow us to be Church!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=610x5zZVDSo

Postscript: As I was writing this reflection, I felt that I might be perpetuating another example of white dominance. Every writer of this blog series has been white showing once again that only what we say matters. However, I came to realize that the audience for this blog series was not parishioners of color, though I hope they read the book too. No, we were writing for white people. White people need to speak to other white people about racism and privilege if we hope to make progress towards the Kingdom. We need to listen more to people of color and make spaces where all feel included but it is not the obligation of Black and Brown people to enlighten us and pull us from our ignorance. Thank you for reading our reflections. May we continue to trust in God to lead us to the promise land of racial justice.

William Alt, Campus Minister for Social Justice

Bill Alt

Bill with his wife Angie and sons Jacob and Patrick have been parishioners at St. Mary’s since 2011. He has the joy of working with the students of the Michigan Community Scholars Program as they engage with their community and create intercultural understanding.

Racial Justice reflection series – Chapter 4 “A Dream Deferred”

Massingale quoting Vaclav Havel:

[Hope is] a state of mind, not a state of the world. Either we have hope within us or we don’t; it is a dimension of the soul, and it’s not essentially dependent on some particular observation of the world or estimate of the situation…It is an orientation of the spirit, an orientation of the heart. It transcends the world that is immediately experienced, and is anchored somewhere beyond its horizons…Hope, in this deep and powerful sense, is not the same as joy that things are going well, or willingness to invest in enterprises that are obviously headed for early success, but, rather, an ability to work for something because it is good, not just because it stands a chance to succeed…Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out,” (147).

This came at just the right time for me, and maybe it will for you too.

As the St. Mary staff person working with our Faith Doing Justice ministry, it would be easy to look at this past semester and feel discouraged. Heck, it would be easy as anyone to look at what is happening in the world, on campus, in the Catholic Church even, and feel discouraged.

Let’s just take UofM’s campus as the example for a moment. Anti-Latino messages painted on the Rock. Racial slurs written on students’ doors in the dorms. Racial slurs graffitied on Ann Arbor area buildings. UofM administration allowing for a leader of white supremacy groups to speak on campus. It’s a lot.

When I get discouraged about how things are going, the tendency can be to become indifferent. I have felt indifferent about race at times this semester. That’s why this message of hope and vision that Fr. Bryan is bringing to us is HUGE!

When I remain in hope, I find that it becomes easier to respond with love, rather than anger, disgust, judgment, or indifference. When I remain in hope, I find myself being more generous and being more courageous in speaking up about racial injustice.

Now, imagine…what would we be able to create if we all had just a little more hope? Could we create that “Beloved Community” that King wrote of and Massingale references?

I think that’s what Jesus wants us to be pondering and exploring, particularly right now during Advent. This is a time of exceptional hope.

But sometimes there is another temptation for myself and for other white people getting in the way of this hope. When we realize our contributions to perpetuating racism (whether that’s directly as an individual or indirectly as part of an institution or system of oppression), there is the desire to want to do something, anything, to prove (mostly to ourself) that I didn’t mean to contribute to it or that I am a good person who is not racist.

And I call it a “temptation” because I think that mode of thinking is something to avoid. It’s a white person’s way of wanting to get “off the hook”, to have a quick fix. But the imbalance of power as a result of race isn’t an issue that has a quick fix; we are always “on the hook.”

Besides, most of the time, I, as white person, don’t know what to do. Even after having taken classes on intergroup dialogue, social structures, and other community activism-based classes, there are times I still don’t know what to do.

And when we don’t know what to do about race, what usually happens? We do nothing.

What I’m trying to say here is: I want to avoid the temptation of having to prove that I’m not racist. At the same time, I also want to avoid becoming indifferent and not doing anything to proclaim anti-racism and a movement towards a positive, inspiring vision, like the “Beloved Community.”

If white people are set on doing something but not knowing what, the one thing I think of doing before anything else is to buy into the vision of the “Beloved Community” and to have hope.

As Massingale writes, “No one gives one’s life for the sake of an abstract concept. No one risks humiliation, ostracization, vilification, persecution, and other forms of opposition for an intellectual idea or sterile definition.”

So if you’ve been feeling discouraged lately, know that we have hope and that that hope is not based on worldly happenings, but on faith. Faith in a heavenly vision of a “Beloved Community”, in which all are truly welcome, social differences are celebrated, and we live this out daily.

How do you see yourself living out this hopeful vision of the “Beloved Community”?

 

Jake Derry

Jake is a recent University of Michigan graduate and the Campus Ministry Associate at St. Mary, working with the Faith Doing Justice ministry. He enjoys writing, being outside, playing sports, and being creative and entrepreneurial.

Christmas & New Year’s Schedule

DECEMBER 21  Daily Mass 5:10 PM  (Office Closed for Christmas Break at 6:00 PM)

DECEMBER 22  Daily Mass 12:10 PM  (Office Closed — Open at 11:45 AM for Mass)

DECEMBER 23  (Office Closed for Christmas Break-No Mass)

 

DECEMBER 24  (Office Open 8AM-7:30PM)
 4th Sunday of Advent Masses

8:30 AM, 10:00 AM (no streaming),

12 NOON Spanish Mass in the Church

12 NOON in Donnelly Hall

Christmas Eve Masses

3:00 PM Children’s Pageant & Mass

5:30 PM Mass

7:30 PM Mass

11:30 PM Lessons & Carols

Midnight Mass

DECEMBER 25  (Office Closed — Open at 9:30 AM for Mass)

10:00 AM Mass

 

DECEMBER 26-DECEMBER 30  (Closed for Christmas Break — No Mass)

DECEMBER 31 (Office Open 8AM-3:30PM)

8:30 AM, 10:00 AM, 12 NOON, 2:00 PM Spanish

JANUARY 1 NEW YEAR’S DAY  (Office Closed — Open at 9:30 AM for Mass)

10:00 AM Mass

JANUARY 2  (Closed for Christmas Break — No Mass)

JANUARY 3  Back to Normal Hours & Mass Schedule

 

January 2017 Daytime Warming Center

Monday-Friday 8am-4pm  January 1-31…We provide food, coffee, a warm place of rest, the opportunity for conversation, and the building of relationships. Solidarity and mutual giving are the values that guide this ministry. Sign up to volunteer and donate: http://bit.ly/warmingcenter   Questions? Contact Jake [email protected]

Gift Registry…We are collecting gently used (or new if you wish) items for those guests with us for the month of January. We would like to provide them with at least one of their three requested items before they move on to the February Warming Center. Visit our registry sign-up to view requested items and for more information.  The sign up will be updated throughout the first three weeks of January. www.SignUpGenius.com/go/5080C49A4AD2-stmary1.  Fulfilled registry items are due to St. Mary’s parish office from Sunday, 1/21 – Wednesday, 1/24.  Items can not be collected after the 24th due to storage and distribution constraints. Questions? Please contact Karen [email protected] or Rainey [email protected]

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