2015
Time to Get in Shape
Written by Fr. Eric Sundrup, SJ on the First Sunday of Advent
Waiting is annoying. Most of us don’t like waiting. It’s no surprise that there are so many apps and online services that promise to save us time, to reduce our wait, to put services or goods in our hands as quickly as possible. They make us feel active and in charge of our time. I understand that push all too well. As far as I’m concerned, self-driving cars can’t get here soon enough. Imagine all the time we’ll recoup when we can work, play or rest while the car does all the driving.
But the really important question isn’t where we can save time, but what are we doing with our time. What will you do with your time this Advent? Our readings this Sunday speak of the end of the world. We are exhorted to be on guard, to be ready. What are we doing with our time? How do we fill our free time? Is it solid preparation?
Do not become drowsy from… the anxieties of daily life.
Often when we hear about Advent as a season of waiting, we think of passive waiting. But preparing to meet the Son of God is not simply about sitting back and waiting for something to happen to us. Our active participation is required. Christianity isn’t a spectator sport.
Think of the type of waiting and preparation that people do for a marathon. Sure, we wait for “race day” but there is nothing passive about that waiting. If you are going to run a marathon your need to stretch, run and cross train. You’ve got work to do. Rest days matter, but they matter because they make those active days that much more effective. We can’t afford to be lazy; we can’t afford to skip training. It’s time to get in shape: The days are coming.
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Fr. Eric Sundrup, SJ
Fr. Eric @sunnydsj was ordained in June 2014 and joined the St. Mary’s staff in August 2014. He relocated to Ann Arbor after completing his degree at the Jesuit School of Theology in Berkeley, CA. Fr. Eric spent part of his Jesuit training living and working in Bolivia and Peru and enjoys working with our vibrant Hispanic ministry. He also works with the Ig.nite lead team and the RCIA program.
Email: esundrup@smspnewman.org
2015
Rejoice and Be Glad!
Written by Fr. Ben Hawley, SJ on Easter Sunday
Living a human life is harder than it looks. Young people have the great advantages of youth, idealism, energy, courage, and a sense that no mountain too high, no challenge too great, no barrier too obstructing. As we live, strive and struggle, we can sometimes find that in fact our lives can seem increasingly difficult and even impossible to navigate – friends, family, work, politics, and economics not fulfilling our needs or desires as we had hoped. At this point our Catholic faith, in particular, Jesus’ Resurrection from sin and death, reminds us that God knows our needs, and our ongoing reflection on our experience shows us that God is already acting to help us. God simply asks us to say Yes to God’s invitation to help us.
But is God big enough to handle the challenges we face, and is God’s guidance enough to enrich our lives beyond what we can achieve on our own? These are essential questions. Following Jesus through his public ministry in the gospel readings in Ordinary Time, we are invited to hear the message that, Yes, God’s presence gives us a richness of life we cannot achieve for ourselves. Following Jesus through his Lenten journey to his destiny in Jerusalem, which we relive moment by moment in the Triduum, we are invited to experience the reality that, Yes, God’s action can lift us through life’s challenges, privations, and hardships to a better life beyond – both in this life and in the afterlife.
In other words, in the celebrations of the Easter Vigil and Easter Sunday we come to experience the reality that God’s life breaks through death, God’s love breaks through opposition or heartache, and that our lives of faith gather their substance from the reality of God’s existence and active pursuit of us. So, I invite you not only into the celebration of this great day but also in the following eight days – the Octave of Easter – and then into the remainder of the Easter Season – up to Pentecost Sunday, May 24 this year. In God’s world there is always more joy than sorrow, more Easter than Lent. Let us all rejoice and be glad.
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Fr. Benjamin Hawley, SJ
Fr. Ben has served as Pastor and Director of Catholic Campus Ministry since August 2010. As pastor his ministry focus is helping the parish be “the field hospital for the wounded,” per Pope Francis, where people discover Jesus’ liberation and healing. Following his ordination in June 2000 Fr. Ben served as President of Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School of Indianapolis until 2006. Prior to becoming Catholic in 1988, Fr. Ben worked for the Agency for International Development, the foreign assistance program of the US Government.
Email: pastorstmarys@gmail.com
2015
God Sure is Good
Written by Davis Argersinger on Holy Saturday
Throughout much of my life, I never quite understood the relationship I had with God. I attended Christmas Eve and Easter services with my family at St. Andrews Episcopal Church, but I didn’t spend much time in church outside of those two dates. I knew God was somehow present in my life, but I had no formal way of growing closer to Him. That all changed though when I started dating my girlfriend Molly, whose passionate Catholic faith helped me understand that God was in fact working through her to lead me to the Catholic Church. She was, and is, a continuous example to me of how great life can be when lived with an unending appreciation of God’s grace. Towards the end of my senior year in high school, I had decided that I wanted to join the Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults (RCIA) program at St. Mary’s. God had so graciously blessed me with the desire to become Catholic.
I soon realized that God’s blessings during my RCIA faith journey were only beginning to rain down upon me. My loving mom, Sarah, whose desire for faith was so similar to mine, had decided to join RCIA with me. Beginning our journeys together towards closeness to God, side-by-side, will always be one of the greatest blessings of my life. As RCIA I had begun, I was blessed with the fellowship of my sponsor Bart, whose enduring and enthusiastic Catholic faith I could only hope to someday parallel. I was provided with so much love and support. God sure is good.
As I reflect back on my first year in the Catholic Church, I have trouble expressing the thankfulness I have for God, and for all of His children who have helped me seek His closeness. As found in the readings for tonight’s Easter Vigil, “God indeed is my savior; I am confident and unafraid. My strength and my courage is the LORD, and he has been my savior” (IS 12:2-3).
Let us always prayerfully thank God for the wonderful desire He has given us to be Catholic.
Question for Reflection & Suggestion for Prayer:
In thinking about your Lenten journey, in what areas of your life do you desire further closeness to God?
Always thank God for the day that stands ahead of you.
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Davis Argersinger
Davis is a sophomore premedical student majoring in psychology at the University of Michigan. He entered the Catholic Church through St. Mary’s RCIA Program in 2014. Davis is incredibly thankful for the support that St. Mary Student Parish has given him during his first year as a Catholic.
Email: davisarg@umich.edu
2015
Take the Risk
Written by Abby Braun on Good Friday
“ My soul is sorrowful even to death. Remain here and keep watch.” –Mark 14:34
I didn’t answer the first time the phone rang. It was 11:00 p.m. on a weeknight and I was getting ready for bed, so I let my friend Sara’s call go to voice mail. When she called again two minutes later, I knew it was important so I picked up. Sara had just learned that her dad, who was in the middle of what was supposed to be a relatively minor heart surgery, was probably going to die before we saw the sun rise again. She called to ask for my prayers and also to ask for something more tangible of me. Would I travel home to Philadelphia with her (we were both living in St. Louis at the time) and spend the week with her and her family as they walked the difficult road of burying her dad?
I often think about that week that I spent with my friend Sara. Sitting in the funeral home for hours while people filed through to pay their respects and say goodbyes. Standing in the cemetery on a crisp fall day, holding my friend’s hand. Lots of tears and laughter and meals and stories shared. It was a week of profound grace for me. Sara asked me to go with her because my own father died when I was in high school, so she knew I understood something about what her heart needed without having to say anything.
Certainly that was part of the grace of that week for me, that I was able to offer love and my simple presence in a way that was helpful to her and her family, because I had been there. But the other grace – the one that has stayed with me even more – was the fact that my friend took the risk to invite me into one of the most sacred, most painful, most vulnerable moments of her life. It was an act of courage on her part, to ask so much of me. And in the end, that act of courage and vulnerability was remarkably transformative for us both: our lives and our friendship were blessed and enriched beyond measure because of it.
That week is on my mind in a particular way as we keep watch this Good Friday and walk with Jesus through his own suffering, death, and burial. I have often been inspired by the witness of the disciples who stay with Jesus to the bitter end, when all hope seems lost. But as I heard the Passion story last Sunday, with ears fresh from having fumbled through another Lent, what hit my heart most was the image of Jesus in the garden, admitting to his friends that he is sad and afraid, asking them to stay with him. How vulnerable he must have been, admitting this to the ones he had been leading, asking them to give what he knew they could not give. And yet that did not stop him from taking the risk to be fully human and to share his whole self.
All of this leaves me asking myself the question, am I willing to be like Jesus and my friend Sara, to take that same risk, to share my whole self and invite others into my own darkest hours? Am I willing to walk the long road with Jesus, and also to ask him to walk my long road with me? After all, that’s the only way we get to the resurrection. Now is the time, right?
Questions for Reflection:
When have you been invited into a vulnerable place in someone else’s life? How did this experience transform you?
What are the dark places in your own life and your own heart right now? Ask Jesus to enter into those places with you.
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Abby Braun
Abby has served as a campus minister at St. Mary’s since 2012. After studying theology at the University of Notre Dame (BA ’05) and Pastoral Ministry at the University of Dayton (MA ’08), Abby spent four years as a Campus Minister at Saint Louis University where she met her husband, Bob. She is especially grateful to be a part of a Jesuit Parish that serves a University community. Abby works part-time at St. Mary’s and spends the rest of her days at home/toddling around Ann Arbor with her one-year-old daughter, Eleanor.
Email: aabraun@umich.edu
2015
First Things First
Written by Fr. Joseph Wagner, SJ on Holy Thursday
“What I am doing, you do not understand now, but you will understand later.”
But why? Why could Peter not understand “now” what Jesus was doing by washing his feet? We all understand, don’t we?
I think there is a very good reason that Peter did not understand, and I think it’s the same reason that many of us, many Christians, and far too many preachers don’t understand either. At that moment, Peter had not yet seen what the next 72 hours would reveal. Peter had not yet abandoned Jesus. Peter had not yet felt the pain of loss, the sting of guilt, the utter absence of hope. Peter had not yet seen what he, what the crowds, what the authorities were capable of doing. Most importantly, he had not yet seen what God’s response to it all would be.
In short, he had not yet seen what Love beyond all love looks like. He had not yet seen just how far God was willing to go to convince us of that love. He had not yet seen, not yet felt, not yet accepted—not yet even imagined—how much forgiveness our God is capable of. And because of that, it had not yet changed him. Peter had not yet had his life turned upside-down by love. He could not understand, as his feet were being washed, that the love of Jesus could become—if he accepted it—the same love that could flow through him. He could not yet understand that only by allowing love to change him could he become the means by which love would change others, transforming their lives, healing broken hearts, feeding the hungry, forgiving enemies.
But not yet. It couldn’t happen yet for Peter, as it cannot happen for any of us until we allow God’s love to transform us. Until we accept it—until we place our faith in it in a way that makes a difference—until then, any call to us to wash each other’s feet will seem only like a nice gesture, like an empty task, like an intrusive burden.
Questions for Reflection:
Does the call to live your Christian identity feel like a burden or flow out of love?
Love cannot flow through you unless it first flows into you. Are you willing to let God’s love for you transform your life?
*Image (above): The Washing of the Feet by Ghislaine Howard (2004)
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Fr. Joseph F. Wagner, SJ
Fr. Joe is a Jesuit priest and Associate Professor in the Department of Mathematics and Computer Science at Xavier University, Cincinnati. He is currently enjoying a research sabbatical in Ann Arbor, and enjoying even more all those he has met at St. Mary Student Parish.
Email: jwagner@smspnewman.org
2015
Love One Another
Written by Aaron Skiba on Wednesday of Holy Week
So here we are; we have arrived at the pinnacle of Lent: Holy Week. Tomorrow is Holy Thursday in which we celebrate the last supper and Jesus’ act of washing the disciples’ feet. I find this act astonishing; the Messiah, the King of the Universe stoops down and washes His friends’ dirty feet. When have you seen or heard of such a humble act being performed by a famous or powerful individual? I imagine you can think of very few instances, since honestly I can’t think of any. Taking this a step further, could you see yourself conducting such an act? To be honest I can’t envision myself doing this, especially right before a celebratory meal. However, such humble and loving acts are precisely what Jesus calls us to do. Specifically, right after washing the disciples’ feet Jesus gives us the commandment to: “love one another. As I have loved you, so you should love one another.” (John 13:34-35).
This notion of loving one another has been a paramount theme throughout my Lenten journey. For in all honesty, at times I can be a rather self-centered and impatient person. Thus my goal this Lent was to give more time to those in need and to be more patient with others. Though I still struggle to be patient and I often find myself focusing on my personal priorities rather than others’ (particularly those in need), just giving a small portion of time and simply being conscious of the fact that I’m called to sincerely love everyone has brought peace to my life.
To increase my awareness of this call to love, I have spent time contemplating what it’d be like to love every person I encountered on a daily basis. By love, I mean sincere love like the love a mother has for her son or a husband his wife or a father his daughter. Think about it, what would this be like and how would you treat the individuals who crossed your path each day? Genuinely loving everyone in this way is precisely Jesus’ commandment; and sadly it’s taken me this long to realize and appreciate it. And I know it will take the rest of my life to learn to love in this way and even then I won’t be perfect at it because love is difficult. Love takes time and effort and it challenges us to be selfless, which directly contradicts the ideas society imposes upon us.
However, we must not forget the key fact that Jesus loves us and even though we will never perfectly reciprocate this love to others our efforts to do so are very pleasing to Him. Furthermore, through these efforts, though they are very difficult at times, we will be filled with the peace and joy God longs for us to experience.
Therefore, as we enter into the Triduum, I humbly invite you to reflect upon the love you have experienced and provided throughout this Lenten season. In light of your reflection I hope and pray that you may fully appreciate the love Jesus showed us through his Passion and death so that you might be motivated to love everyone you encounter throughout the Easter season.
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Aaron Skiba
Aaron is a PhD student at the University of Michigan studying Aerospace Engineering. He has been a part of the St. Mary’s community since he started his undergraduate degree in 2007 and is currently part of both the Graduate/Young Professionals and SCC lead teams.
Email: skiba@umich.edu
2015
Be Not Afraid
Written by Peggy Sheagran on Tuesday of Holy Week
Today’s gospel reading acknowledges Jesus’ awareness that Judas would betray him. “One of you will betray me…” I often try and picture this scene, especially during Holy Week. Imagine the disciples glancing around the room, wondering who Jesus’ betrayer might be. A few disciples may have even feared that they themselves might be Jesus’ betrayer, given the fear and uncertainty they all were undoubtedly experiencing. Imagine the disciples thinking – I want to trust, to unconditionally believe, but I get scared sometimes.
In the 1998 bestseller, Who Moved My Cheese?, the author asks a profound question: “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” The disciples had reason to be afraid as they listened to their beloved friend forecast his impending death at the last supper. They had reason to be afraid as, while their friend reassured them that he would “rise in three days”, what in the world did that even mean? They had reason to be afraid, after hearing that someone in the room would hand Jesus over to individuals who would eventually take his life. While perhaps not to this extreme, we all have reasons to be afraid. But, do we allow those reasons to prevent us from living the life Jesus has in store for us?
So, what would you do if you weren’t afraid? If you wholeheartedly trusted that Jesus was protecting every hair on your head, what would you do differently in your life? Would you change majors to follow your heart? Would you express your feelings more truthfully at the risk of not being “liked”? Would you forego some income to redirect your career to find your dream job? Would you let go of an addiction despite the fear of embarrassment or exposing your need for help? Would you acknowledge Jesus’ soft (or sometimes not so soft) nudge to go in a different direction at the risk of being less “in control”?
Maybe it’s time to make a spiritual bucket list of the things you’d do if you knew Jesus would guide and protect you every step of the way…because He would.
Question for Reflection & Suggestion for Prayer:
What would you do if you weren’t afraid? Find some quiet time to make a list.
Read/sing the words to the song: “Be Not Afraid”.
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Peggy Sheagren
Peggy grew up in Ann Arbor and has been a resident for all but eight years of her life. She’s a grateful wife and mom (2 boys), and a proud UM alum. She currently works in UM’s School of Kinesiology.
Email: sheagren@umich.edu
2015
Carry the Wisdom
Written by Jeff Hatgas on Monday of Holy Week
As Easter rapidly approaches, I look to how I might carry the wisdom of Lent beyond these 40 days. During these past few weeks, I recommitted myself to intentional conversation with God. Not surprisingly, these conversations allowed me the space to reflect on my day-to-day experience, but also enabled me to re-center myself. As a result of this practice I found myself asking for eyes to see in a new way. Having just lived through the harshest winter of my life, I’ve quickly grown into mental frame of cold and gray. I’ve missed opportunities to be grateful. I’ve allowed myself to quickly compartmentalize all that I experience—to live it and move on. My prayer pushed me to try on a different frame of mind: to soak in the encounters of my day, push past those things which get under my skin, to see the “god-ness” in those that get on my nerves, and to praise God in the complexity and beauty of creation (yes, even in the snow and slush).
Today’s reading furthers this challenge. Not only are we called to say, “yes” to opportunities to love, but also asked to do so with passion. Although our responses may not always be as monumental as Mary’s towards Jesus, I look to her example as one to emulate. I pray that I have an everyday courage to greet the truth in every day. While each of us has a unique set of gifts, we are filled with the Spirit. Our ways of embodying this Spirit in our happenings will undoubtedly play out differently, but we are all called to be light to all we encounter.
Question for Reflection:
How do I not only recognize, but also anoint the Jesus that I meet in all of creation?
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Jeff Hatgas
Jeff is currently pursuing his Masters in Theology and Ministry at the Boston College School of Theology and Ministry. He worked as a Peer Minister at St. Mary Student Parish during the 2013-2014 academic year.
Email: hatgasj@bc.edu
2015
Check-in for Lent
Written by Courtney Lambesis on Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion
Take a minute and think about how you would answer this question:
What things do you do to know God?
I’ll bet that your answers sound a lot like this:
- Read your bible
- Go to church
- Keep His commandments
- Pray daily
- Spread the news of the Lord
- Ask for forgiveness from sins
The list goes on and on… and that’s the problem. For many years I believed that to be close to God I had to follow a checklist of things that would please God. If I skipped church, sinned, or was judgmental about someone, I had disappointed Him. In order to make things right with God after I messed up, I believed I had to reverse these habits and be perfect. Someone in my Small Church Community called this mindset an attempt to earn ‘Jesus points.’
Go to church= +2 points
Say something mean to someone= -3 points
Pray= +1 point
Etc.
This is an exhausting cycle that causes us to feel unloved, and causes our desire for God in our lives to diminish. If we feel we can never please Him, it extinguishes our desire to try.
While I’m sure God is pleased when we do decide to read our bible, pray daily, or be kind to others, these things aren’t conditions for His love. In fact, His love for us is unconditional! There is not a single thing we can do to make His love for us less than it is!
So knowing that we don’t have to earn God’s love, how does God call us to live our lives?
The answer is simple: Love.
“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God, and every one that loveth is born of God and knoweth God. He that loveth not, knoweth not God, for God is love. In this was manifested the love of God toward us: that God sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him.” -1 John 4:7-9
Jesus died for our sins in the ultimate act of love; He IS love. Therefore no matter what we say, do, or believe, we cannot possibly know God unless we love. That “checklist” I believed was necessary for God’s love should not be done out of fear of disappointing the Lord, but instead be viewed as graces from God that allow us to grow closer to Him. This Holy Week, may our goal be to love God and love others as unconditionally as God loves us.
Questions for Reflection:
Are there ways you in which you feel you have disappointed God that you need to let go of?
In what ways do you show love towards God and others best?
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Courtney Lambesis
Courtney is a sophomore majoring in Microbiology at the University of Michigan. She serves on the lead team for Small Church Communities at St. Mary Student Parish.
Email: lambesco@umich.edu
2015
Peace Is Only Found In Yes
Written by Elaina Jo Polovick on Saturday of the Fifth Week of Lent
As the semester is coming to a close (more quickly than I want to accept) I have started seeing deadlines approaching. I think about all the events I need to plan and decisions I need to make about choosing which graduate school I’ll attend next year. I know that now is the time to say yes, but I’ve been struggling to find peace in my yes. I was struck by today’s reading from Ezekiel where we are called to say yes to the covenant that God offers us:
I will make with them a covenant of peace;
it shall be an everlasting covenant with them,
and I will multiply them, and put my sanctuary among them forever.
My dwelling shall be with them;
I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
Unlike many things in our busy lives there is no deadline to respond to this offer from God. When I reflect on this covenant in which God offers us peace and unconditional love, I find myself feeling more open to saying yes. In saying yes to God’s promise of peace I have begun to find peace in my yes to the graduate school I’m being called to. As I struggled to pray about my yes, I came across this prayer: Peace is only found in yes. (Anthony de Mello, SJ)
This resonated deeply with me. I found myself saying yes to God’s covenant, and finally to the graduate school I believe I’m being called to. As I say this yes, I feel a peacefulness within myself. Peace is found in saying yes.
Questions for Reflection:
What are you called to say yes to?
How can we enter into God’s covenant of peace more fully as we prepare to enter into Holy Week?
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Elaina Jo Polovick
Elaina Jo is one of the peer ministers at St. Mary Student Parish. She works with the special events team as well as a smattering of other programs.
Email: epolovick@smspnewman.org