Faith Sharing Fridays October 16, 2015

Gospel for Sunday, October 18th, 2015

How often do we hear the words “the first shall be last, and the last shall be first”? How often do we actually behave this way? I know I struggle with it. And yet, I don’t find myself making self-centered choices as a result of intentionally selfish decision-making, but rather, as a result of failing to actively think and live with an other-centered mindset.

Jesus reminds us in Sunday’s Gospel that “whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of all.” In order to be the great disciple that I hope to become, my lens in life must be focused on the other instead of the self. Obviously, this isn’t easy. What does it really mean to be “slave of all”? What kind of time commitment are we talking about? I can’t just quit work, or school, and go around Ann Arbor asking people if I can help them with something, that’s just not… real life.

Or am I being selfish again?

I think messages like this get scary, really easily. It feels like I’m being asked to do something pretty extreme, and I’m not really comfortable with it. Oftentimes, that’s kind of the point though, right? We grow by experiencing things that we aren’t familiar with, that might make us uncomfortable.

I think this Gospel calls us to take a step back and think about our day-to-day behavior. How could I better act as a servant to those I see every day at work, or in classes? What are the ways in which I tend to think of myself, that I could instead shift to focus on others first? In a society that heavily emphasizes the importance of the self, I challenge you and myself to instead strive to be the slave of all we are called to be.

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As the cartoon above points out, in contrast to the rich man in last week’s gospel, James and John gave up everything to follow Jesus. I can clearly envision them thinking, “Look, we’ve given up everything, our reward better be great when this man comes to power.” Admittedly, I would probably respond in the very same way. Nevertheless, this is not the response Jesus was looking for. James and John’s question originated from their selfish desires and inability to comprehend Jesus teachings. Jesus’ primary lesson was for us to be selfless and to love and serve each other.

I invite you to spend time with these readings and to reflect on the areas in your life that are driven by selfish ambition and those driven by love. Peace.

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A Male Young Professional